I started my small business in 2021 after having my son in 2020. I struggled to return to my contract job, particularly in finding a balance with childcare. Since then, I have grown not only as a mum but also as a small business owner. Let’s explore the five important lessons my son has taught me about running a business
1. Failures are a Part of the Journey
That moment when a child takes their first solo steps is unforgettable and becomes a cherished memory. However, the journey to that moment is filled with ups and downs—lots of falls, frustration, and tears. Running a small business is very similar.
Operating a small business from home is rarely smooth sailing. There are tantrums over technology failures, frustration when a design doesn’t come together, and tears when Royal Mail loses your package. Yet, the final results will make all the challenges worthwhile.
2. Play is Important
For kids, there is no yesterday or tomorrow—only the present. They exist in the moment, which is often filled with intense activities like car racing or flying planes (I have a boy, so I don’t get to play with ponies). In the world of business, taking breaks is crucial.
It’s easy to experience burnout, especially when you focus on all the tasks you need to complete tomorrow or when you think about things from yesterday that you need to address today. However, taking time to be present is essential. Whether it’s driving Lightning McQueen around on the carpet or simply sitting outside with a book, carving out time for yourself is important
3. Show Everyone What You Have Done
There is a special kind of pride that little ones exhibit when they run up to show you a picture they’ve created. Even if it’s just a brown blob on a piece of paper, they present it with confidence, and you can’t help but agree that it is indeed the most amazing piece of art ever made. This sentiment applies just as much to running a business, particularly a creative one.
Sharing something you’ve poured your heart and soul into can be daunting. The fear of facing rejection or being overlooked can trigger significant anxiety. But you should go for it! Present your work to the world and take pride in what you’ve accomplished. Someone will appreciate it, and then another, and another. Stand tall with a big smile and say, “Look at me! Look at what I created!”
4. Negotiation
Anyone with a toddler or a teenager will understand this struggle. My negotiating skills are truly tested when my son tries to convince you that they need to go headfirst down a slide, and you have to negotiate a safer way to play.
These skills can be quite helpful in business, especially when dealing with customers. Whether they are negotiating a discount for a wholesale order or requesting a custom design, it’s important to remember that customers are not as tough to negotiate with as a 5-year-old trying to get a new toy car.
5. Nap Time is for Babies
This made me laugh. When my son turned two, he boldly declared that naps are for babies. As a result, he started resisting naps at home, although he did take nice naps at nursery.
I’m not one of those people who believe that “you snooze, you lose.” That idea is nonsense. Resting doesn’t make you a loser; in fact, it’s quite the opposite.
However, not promoting your brand, failing to post regularly, and neglecting to update your listings can make it seem like your store is on “nap time.” To keep everything active and attract customers, stay on top of social media, update your listings frequently, and refresh your tags for SEO. This will help wake everything up and draw in more customers.
Many thanks for taking the time to read my blog. What lessons have your kids taught you? Please feel free to leave a comment below.
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Until next time… keep shopping small.
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